The 30 Days of Kink – Day 3 – How did you discover you were kinky?

I don’t think that I “discovered” that I was kinky I just knew I was kinky.

I have always had a fairly adventurous nature and a need to try different things and sexuality was no exception.  There were good and bad sexual experiences, one or two of which I wished had never happened, however, each and every one shaped the woman that I became.

I spent a large amount of my adulthood married to the same man, who was himself quite open minded and adventurous but the one thing that I wanted to try and he could not bring himself to do was to hurt me.  I wanted to try BDSM and although he could tie me up and tease me he could not hurt me.

After my relationship with that person ended (this was not the entire reason that it did end) I decided to go out and explore my need for BDSM and the more kinky lifestyle.  This was about 7 years ago now.

So began meetings with various men (and some women) where I learnt about submission, pain, bondage, that I am a masochist, that I enjoy to Domme as well as submit, that I have quite a sadistic nature.  I discovered my kinky self was quite wide and varied and that I am open to trying things that I may not have expected to.

I have now found a partner in M who is able to satisfy my kinks as I can his.  We communicate with each other in a free and open way that we both have never been able to do with others in the past.  We understand each other totally and can feed each others need for sexuality be it kinky or not.

It feels so good to be able to be free within our relationship to be able to voice our needs to each other and for there to be no judgement.  We can discuss anything kinky and it is a wonderful place to be.

 

My favourite flogger

My favourite flogger

 

 

 

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A sexually liberated woman entering her 50's, sharing her new life as she transitions into middle-age.
Velvet will share her stories, both autobiographical and fictional together with poetry, when the inspiration takes her, as well as some of her photography.
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