This is the first time that I have participated in Food For Thought Friday. I have been a bit sporadic with my posting of late. I thought that it would be a good way of me getting back into the habit of writing again by participating in a few memes to get the juices flowing and finding that there is a fairly new one on the block, well here I am!
This week’s prompt on Food For Thought Friday :-
Impure Thoughts – When it comes to truly enjoying sex, how important is it for your mind to be stimulated as well as your body? What are the ways in which you enjoy you partner (or yourself) stimulating your mind?
Done well, you can experience in your mind a situation without actually going there. Many years ago I met a Dom who was extremely good at using the power of the mind. He would “suggest” a situation that I may have fantasised about and then he would use suggestion to take me to that situation and get feedback from me about how I was feeling about that situation. During some of these sessions I would have the most amazing sexual reactions and it really was like I was there experiencing it. No, it wasn’t any form of hypnosis but it really was something else.
Nowadays, I love it when M and I use text messaging to start our foreplay. We can be “sexting” all day about what he may do to me, what he may make me do and how used I will feel at the end of the evening. These build-ups always make the sex/play so much more intense. We will often both be in a more receptive mood when we are together again and if he tasks me to do things during the day to “please” him this always enhances my inner sluttiness and submissiveness.
Warm up the mind and the body will often follow suit and boy does it make the whole end event so much better!!
Velvet will share her stories, both autobiographical and fictional together with poetry, when the inspiration takes her, as well as some of her photography.