Impure Thoughts

This is the first time that I have participated in Food For Thought Friday.  I have been a bit sporadic with my posting of late.  I thought that it would be a good way of me getting back into the habit of writing again by participating in a few memes to get the juices flowing and finding that there is a fairly new one on the block, well here I am!

This week’s prompt on Food For Thought Friday :-

Impure Thoughts – When it comes to truly enjoying sex, how important is it for your mind to be stimulated as well as your body? What are the ways in which you enjoy you partner (or yourself) stimulating your mind?

The mind is the largest erogenous zone of the human body.  It can take you to the highest of highs and the darkest depths.  sex-organ-the-brain-the-b-spot

Done well, you can experience in your mind a situation without actually going there.  Many years ago I met a Dom who was extremely good at using the power of the mind.  He would “suggest” a situation that I may have fantasised about and then he would use suggestion to take me to that situation and get feedback from me about how I was feeling about that situation.  During some of these sessions I would have the most amazing sexual reactions and it really was like I was there experiencing it.  No, it wasn’t any form of hypnosis but it really was something else.

Nowadays, I love it when M and I use text messaging to start our foreplay.  We can be “sexting” all day about what he may do to me, what he may make me do and how used I will feel at the end of the evening.  These build-ups always make the sex/play so much more intense.  We will often both be in a more receptive mood when we are together again and if he tasks me to do things during the day to “please” him this always enhances my inner sluttiness and submissiveness.

Warm up the mind and the body will often follow suit and boy does it make the whole end event so much better!!




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  1. Kathy

    Yeah right!! The Brain does it all.

  2. Cammies on the Floor

    I love sexting and then coming together at the end of the day. Yay for joining in

  3. Kat

    Delighted you have joined in the conversation Velvet!

    I agree that text can be a very powerful form of foreplay. It’s a bit like edging all day, building the tension, right?
    Hope to see you here again!

  4. Kilted Wookie

    I completely agree on the sexting thing. Me and the FwB can do this for days before we actually see each other and the results, well, you can imagine…


  5. Keith M

    The mind needs just as much stimulation as the body, when both are engaged, everything is better


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