How Did You Discover You Were Kinky?

30 Days of Kink – Day 3

I never really “discovered” I was kinky.  It was always there – a different way of  thinking and seeing things, although as a youngster I was not really aware of it.

I have always had a fairly open mind about sex and sexual acts. Although my father was fairly staid in his ways, my mother was more open about it and never shied away from discussing it, or indeed, once she felt myself and my sister were old enough, from watching certain programmes on the television (supervised) depicting it.  The one that sticks vividly in my mind was the series I Claudius, about the roman empire and in particular the life of the Emperor Claudius, who was very decadent indeed!!

I suppose my kinky interests were first truly piqued during my marriage, when my ex husband told me of some of his sexual exploits (which were numerous and fairly decadent!) and some of which he had seen on his many travels across different parts of the world.

Following the breakdown of my marriage I decided to go and look to fulfil some of the interests and urges that I had and some of these I will document here in future posts.

So really there was no single epiphany of discovering I was kinky, just a knowledge that I am what I am.  I do not discount or judge any sexual act or sexual perversion.

I have a wide range of kinks, including many taboo areas that others would not venture into.  Yes, I have limits, and that is, I believe, healthy as it means that I know myself well and what I can and more importantly cannot do at this time (I never discount the possibility of stretching or testing a limit though!).

I also believe that our kinky nature is something that is ever changing and developing and that acceptance of these changes is important too.

 

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One of my favourite kinks – flogging (giving and (in this case) receiving)

 

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7 Comments

  1. Molly

    Sounds like you Mother did a good job. I am trying really hard to give my kids all the knowledge they need and be open and honest with them so that they can grow up to have happy healthy sex lives

    Mollyxxx

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  2. SassyCat

    Wonderful share. 🙂
    Lovely photo.

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  3. mahotsukai

    Lovely! I like how you describe the self-discovery aspect and the tolerance towards others that goes along with it.

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  4. Marie Rebelle

    mmm I love the image!

    Sex wasn’t something my parents talked about with us, and for very long I have denied my kinky nature, because I was ashamed of it. I’m glad I’m not anymore 🙂

    Rebel xox

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  5. Devi Ansevi

    I second Melina, gorgeous pic. We didn’t talk about sex in my house, but I discovered my own kinkiness by reading erotica in college. The web has made it so much easier to discover we’re not alone in our desires.

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    • Van

      Wonderful
      I love it when ” women of a certain age” explore and express their game sexuality
      As a man who was born in the middle of the last century and who celebrates my own kinks I salute you

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  6. Melina Greenport

    Can’t wait for those future posts! Also, sexy photo!! xxM

    Reply

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