This week’s Food for Thought Friday
Do you and your partner have pet names for each other? Do you use them in private or in public? How do you feel about cutesy names like babe, honey, sugar? Are you ok with being affectionately called slut or bitch? Spill the beans! Dare to tell us your pet name!
In case you are wondering about the title of this post “Hello Pet” harks back to my north eastern roots here in the UK.
Personally I don’t mind pet names in the slightest, be they “vanilla” or “BDSM”.
When we are in D/s play mode (we are not 24/7 D/s) then M always becomes “Sir” and he calls me “slut” or “dirty slut”.
For us when we are in D/s mode for an evening, or a day, we find that the use of these names enhances the dynamic between us. It creates, for us, a stronger and more intense scene and when getting fucked hard by the man that is my Dominate for that time calling me his “dirty little slut” taps into my submission completely.
Day to day I usually have one main pet name that I use which is “Sweetheart”.
Him for me? Well it varies I get called allsorts of cute and fluffy names. Do I mind? Not in the slightest! Sometimes they make me laugh, sometimes I groan but always they are done with the greatest of affection so I don’t mind at all.
One of his favourites to use is “Dreamboat”! (I wonder if anyone knows where this comes from?)
I leave you with a bit of fun! Enjoy!!
Velvet will share her stories, both autobiographical and fictional together with poetry, when the inspiration takes her, as well as some of her photography.